Different types of luck
As a kid, any time I played Monopoly I would go back and forth from Free Parking to Jail, over and over. Extreme highs and extreme lows. We always said if anyone was going to win the lottery in my family, it would be me. Once, as a hanukah present, my brother gave me scratch-offs. I won. Something like $15, that I collected at a gas station.
There are some people who lose their job, spend a couple of months sleeping late, going to the matinee movies, having long lunches, taking vacations, etc., before they get antsy and want to get back to work. So they buy a new interview outfit, send out a slew of resumes, and within three months from when they started their job search in earnest, they are again gainfully employed. Or they temp somewhere, and do such a stellar job that their supervisor finds or creates a position for them. I don't have that kind of luck.
I find pennies in the street. That's my kind of luck. Last week I was talking to Golden Boy about luck, and we realized something. In April of 2009, the thinking was that I would go to Mexico for his wedding, and practically straight from the wedding have to give up and leave San Francisco. Instead, I came home from Mexico, moved in with Wooffers, and less than week after moving had a temp gig. It's now over a year later and I'm still in San Francisco, so maybe I am lucky after all. Guess I just have a different type of luck than what I expected.
Labels: Golden Boy, Overthinking, Potential Depth, Pounding the pavement
5 Comments:
Did you ever get back that deposit money that woofers took outof your nightstand?
I believe this, that there are different types of luck. I tell my husband we are the Even Stevens. We will never win the lottery jackpot or become beloved celebrities or invent something that everyone ends up using, but we will also never suffer horrible illness or lose our house to a tornado or foreclosure or be the victims of violent crime. We will be those average, ordinary people who go through life with moments of joy and moments of sadness, but mostly just ordinary.
I absolutely believe you are due your time of happiness and success that balances out your hard times. Otherwise this really is a crap world.
I too really want to know the end of the saga with Woofers the cuckoo roommate if you can talk about it...
So glad you have made it through such a tough year for you...hopefully all those little lucky things add up to something greater in 2010.
To answer Catherine and Anon, no, I never got the money back. She went with the "deny, deny, deny no matter what" play. I went to the police station twice, once to file a report and once to follow up. The 2nd time, I asked the officer if anything at all would be done, or if this would just be filed away somewhere, and then told him it was okay, I could take the truth. He admitted nothing would be done; I thanked him for his honesty and left. He ran after me and caught me at the elevators and offered to run her name and said if anyone had reported her as having stolen from them, he'd get an investigation started. I never got the money back. 9am sued me for it. I still owe him, but can't pay him without making myself homeless.
Oh man that really sucks :( I still hope the money pops up someplace.
Yea, I'm a dreamer....
C
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