Loose Earlobe Lady Update
So I told you in an earlier post (that I'm not blog savvy enough to link on up here, so I apologize, but you'll have to scroll down) that I spoke with the woman who ran the training in LA about Loose Earlobe Lady (LEL) and she gave me some things to think about.
I did not want to continue going to work and being hurt each day by LEL's attempts to make me feel left out. However, I did not want to sink to her level and try to make her feel as awful as she was trying to make me feel. I wanted to rise above. My mother never misses a chance to tell me I'm immature and I wanted to prove to myself that she's wrong.
I've settled on mostly ignoring LEL and it seems to be working wonderfully. I don't ignore her with dirty looks. I don't roll my eyes. I just ignore her. It's a relief to have resolved this.
I did not want to continue going to work and being hurt each day by LEL's attempts to make me feel left out. However, I did not want to sink to her level and try to make her feel as awful as she was trying to make me feel. I wanted to rise above. My mother never misses a chance to tell me I'm immature and I wanted to prove to myself that she's wrong.
I've settled on mostly ignoring LEL and it seems to be working wonderfully. I don't ignore her with dirty looks. I don't roll my eyes. I just ignore her. It's a relief to have resolved this.
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